hi, so we have our first new member that doesn't actually know all of us. there wil be times where some of us will discuss people that others don't know, as a prelude to an idea... (thinking of our friend matt, because for some reason he always spawns all kinds of dialogue amongst the rest of us)
so hopefully that won't offend.

i was realizing today that being in a relationship changes me in small ways. ok, we all know this. but for example, amy was talking about going to a show tonight and i was hesitant because...i'm not sure why. i feel less able to do things last minute now. it's the autonomy vs. us thing, i guess.